Agree 100%, that's the Chinese way
To my knowledge there is no way to change this. I don't know what car you have, I have two 2008 Touaregs (a V8 and a V6 both FSIs) and depending on the year there were big problems with the digital amps not to mention the Fakra dual antennas being combined into a single feed into the AFTERMARKET HU. Furthermore, I had a backup camera on my V8 but it took a composite video feed whilst the Chinese HU accepted a component one (after have slaved pulling an rca cable through 4 air bags etc. I wasn't looking forward to doing that again so I simply got an RF Tx/Rx to beam the video feed to the front).
So even if you were to change the amp (as was the case with a few folks who dumped their 04-06 digital amps in the VWs) they still couldn't get the HU to do something it was never meant to do. Which is probably why you pay 300 bucks for a made in China and 1800 bucks for an RNS unit (not to mention that you actually see the screen in daylight which is "challenging" on mine for example).
A last important point I forgot to mention. There are
NO units whether JVC, Pioneer or other made in China or bongobongoland that are CanBus2.0 compliant. JVC would of course not comment to me about their 2013 line up but I didn't see that this was in the offing. Support for CanBus2.0 would open incredible avenues to display system and other info on a reasonably sized screen rather that on the small MFD.
Sorry, I don't believe there is a solution to your issue of separating the front/rear speaker in an "interrupt" or at least none in the VW world (which is probably the most pita I've found).
HTH
siberian