@jazzyfizzle
First I have to tell you that are in some other company trying to "crack open" your Sony. Unfortunately, you are not alone here. Let's try anyway. Just make sure that you back everything up first before you edit anything - just in case.
When you plug your device to your computer via USB, what do you see? We are looking for the .exe that sends your device to the navigation program. Can you make a screen shot here?
If we can figure that out, then it may be possible to modify an unlock. Once we have it unlocked then it should be "simple" to install a more current program and maps. Just know that it may not work. Some devices just can't be modified. Your Sony just might be one of them.
It may be necessary for you to use "Total Commander."
http://www.navitotal.com/forums/showthread.php?3860-Total-Commander&highlight=total+commander